Michelle, the rubber band thing works great. Whenever I know I shouldn't text, call, whatever -- or even if I need to thought stop -- I put a rubber band on my wrist to snap some sense into me when needed.
Mink, I think this will change our dynamic. We'll see if it's positive or not, I'm still hopeful even though I'm prepared for anything.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09