I have talked to her about boundaries, she doesn't get it. I am sitting here crying right now, because I feel bad for blowing up at her, and because I see no end to this.
If H paid half the bills for the house then I COULD afford to live somewhere else. But poor him, he can't afford it. THAT is why I get so angry at him. He hasn't had to give up anything. Not his privacy and not his freedom. Example: I was out Saturday night and she called me at 11:00 asking when I was coming home, said I needed to hurry because she was tired of waiting up. WTF, I am 27 years old!!!!!!!! Its ridiculous.
Hell, if H would sell his car, cancel his cable and internet then maybe he could contribute...but no, he "deserves" those things. A part of me really wants to call him and say he needs to start contribuing x amount of dollars towards the house and also take back the things that I still pay for (insurance, gym membership), so that I can afford to live a life of freedom too.
Sorry, I don't know what set me off...but I need to vent.
