blindsided,
I only have a second to post for now...but I had to say this...
Quote:
..."okay, I see why you chose to cheat on your pregnant wife and walk away from your family and our family that we had worked so hard to create. I understand why you left your W with a high risk pregnancy and put her through mental and emotional anguish at a very critical time during the pregnancy."

This is not forgiving. You don't have to agree with what has done to forgive him or to accept it.
I'll be back later after the little ones are in bed!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out