Thanks for checking in and giving me encouragement. I know that I'll be better in the long run and I know my D will understand me and what I've gone through as well. It is just so darn hard while you are stuck in the middle of it all to be patient. I just want it all to move along. However, the lull in the response from the parenting evaluator has worked to my advantage in the fact that I've been able to amass more letters on my behalf and sort through all of the needed items to send for his inspection. I still wish I was somewhat closer to a conclusion, however.
I am going to follow my L's lead, but I'm still not happy about having to defend myself against W's wacked-out charges. I can't sit still and allow them to be leveled against me however. What would I tell my D when she asks about them? They weren't true, but I decided not to spend the money to dispute the charges? That wouldn't wash and would undermine my credibility w/ my D.
Thus, I'm leaving it up to him and I'm hoping his 35 years of experience will come to my rescue in a big way here.
