everything would be better, just basically he was in fantasyland. I think eventually, if not now, he will realize that relationship is doomed, but I guess it takes time, getting to know the OW and seeing that she's not perfect, and getting over MLC a bit in my H's case, etc.
Mine too. They have the rose colored glasses on and EVERYTHING looks better, but they have to realize this in their own time. Sommetimes its quickly, but more often than not they are slow learners. I know mine is. He knows that being at home is the best choice, he just doesn't WANT to be there. Ok, so don't be there, but know I won't wait forever...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
