Quote: Take it easy things didn't go that bad.Let them settle a little and then go about doing what works.
I know they didn't go that bad..I could have walked out of the office...I know that it's going to be rough in the begining...
trying to just let it go...and go with the flow..we'll see.
Quote: What about each of you making a list that you would like to see done tha week.Like a kiss before he leaves for work or whatever.
one of the things I tried to have h accept in c session would be that one night a week would be reserved for us time..that h would make it a point to get home early ( well before 7) and stay awake and attentive...maybe play a game of darts or cards or something like that...h couldn't commit to that..said he wouldn't say that he would, knowing that there is a strong possibility that the day could get screwed up and then he wouldn't be able to.
so you see..I've asked for what I want..h either can't or wont give.
the kiss before leaving for work...as far as I know h does kiss me every morning before he leaves..but because he leaves so early and I'm basically asleep I'm not always aware of it..