I keep wanting to spout a short one off, but never seem to get one in at an opportune time. Most times, when I want to, it feels out of place. I'm sure it is just me. I do so many stupid things concerning DB. I have terrible timing.
I've been reading your threads and I think you are doing a great job. You sound like a wonderful H, and I hate to see you feeling that you are doing stupid things and talking badly about yourself. I mean none of us here are perfect, except maybe Puppy of course! , and I think you just try to do the best you can. I think we need to be nicer on ourselves, when we are strong, caring, loving (fill in a few more positive adjectives), yet sometimes we beat ourselves up when our WAS are the ones that are making the bad choices and doing things they shouldn't. Karen
, and I think you just try to do the best you can. I think we need to be nicer on ourselves, when we are strong, caring, loving (fill in a few more positive adjectives), yet sometimes we beat ourselves up when our WAS are the ones that are making the bad choices and doing things they shouldn't. 
Karen
