The roommate thing isn't a red flag. I just feel like I'm not getting enough attention from this guy and I thought maybe it's because of his roommate.
Anyway...something VERY interesting is happening in the world of whitelight.
My sister just called and accused me of hurting her feelings. I hardly ever talk to her or spend time with her(her choosing), but when I do, she somehow manages to get hurt. I didn't do anything wrong! I'm a good person. I never intend to hurt her, I don't go around hurting my friends or other family members. THis is just a role that she wants me to play.
and that's when the lightning bolt hit...maybe this is what I'm doing to my new guy. and maybe it's pushing him away and maybe that's why he has less attention for me.
When my sister called, she didn't call with the thought that there was a misunderstanding and let's clear it up, rather she called accusing me. Now to me, I'm used to this cycle of her's so I just sort of laughed to myself...okay now it's time to baby her for a moment.
What I noticed with my sister is something that this new guy has mentioned to me before. He said, my intention is never to hurt you. I wish you would come at me, like there was a misunderstanding and not accusing me. He said, if I continue to make you feel bad and I'm not meaning to, then this won't work. This is a conversation that we had about a month ago.
