Karen IMHO if she has already been divorced a "couple" of times and your H isn't pushing for a divorce, maybe he realizes that they are doomed to fail from the start.
Corey
Thanks Corey! Yes, I think if my H was logical & rational he would prob. realize that the affair is doomed (as most are). But I think a lot of our WAS aren't logical and rational, and really just the opposite. I was just talking to someone recently who was talking to my H in the early stages of his affair, and they said they couldn't believe my H was a lawyer, he was talking so delusional and dumb about divorce and all.
He used to say stuff like after divorce he would have more money (just now is realizing that won't be true), more time, everything would be better, just basically he was in fantasyland. I think eventually, if not now, he will realize that relationship is doomed, but I guess it takes time, getting to know the OW and seeing that she's not perfect, and getting over MLC a bit in my H's case, etc. Karen
