"In the morning I noticed W had gone to bed with no panties, her sign that she was available to ML however I missed the sign.(Dam!!)" Well now you know to make a quick check. If she's asleep try the 5am special.
"... problem is W and bf had the health spa treatment booked from January, (before we started piecing)." That makes it easier to forgive. But I hope BF is not a bad influence on W.
Lan, Something like this was bound to happen some day. No one's perfect. B-days are often a sensitive time. Maybe plan the anniversary now and a few weekend Summer getaways and nights out. And take it easy you have come a long way.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread