Cinders , I believe you need to be real to yourself.

If you think it is inappropriate and if H cared what you said I would say Hey Maybe the kids don't need to see OW half naked.

I don't know.
It makes no sense to me how they can think that is normal. You are not even divorced.

crazy, I tell ya, just plain crazy.

You have patience. I just wouldn't be able to do what you do. Maybe that is my problem. My H knows not to bring her around me.
It just isn't right1


You are a saint!