Hi Thanks for your words of wisdom. I don't know which is worse...my h who said nothing and just walked out and moved in with ow 2 weeks after leaving. He is now colder than ice and never ever got intimate or close after he walked out the door. Or your H who wants you when he feels like it but also the ow.
This is so hard to go through ...
Stay strong, you are a good person. Continue to be there for your d. Mine is so little (15 months) but knows exactly what is going on - when i look sad she gives me a kiss and gives me her pacifier!!!