Hi, LL...I wasn't trying to be harsh, just to point out that you did complain about not knowing when the busy season would end, but when someone miscostrued your description of your H, you really found SO MANY positive things about him, and defended him yourself, and told us when the busy season would end! Just wanted to say, good job looking at the positives in H...and, for all your feeling that the business has control of him and his time, all our suggestions seem to be things you two have discussed and agreed to implement eventually or agreed that they aren't completely realistic. Sounds like you are doing a good job of communicating and managing your M in the midst of a very very difficult time...And you're doing what is necessary to assure that your H's (your FAMILY's) business is a success.
Hope your c goes well & you get to look at sheds!!! Man, THAT is a married-with-children date if I ever heard one!
My 3 positives:
1) Had fun getting up at 5am with SBH to make his lunch/coffee and have a chance to talk with him
2) Got daughter to school on time, in the nick of time...
3) we also have c session tonight...I find myself just looking forward to having an hour to sit with H and talk without having kids interrupt! Even if we're talking about difficult stuff!!