Quote: No you don’t. And your H doesn’t need a W who’s been pulled into the mindset that he’s an insensitive oaf for working hard to support his family.
And the combination of those mindsets would sound the death knell of your M.
Don’t need that do you, LL?
No I don't!
I know that my h is under stress. I know he is working because he has to work and not at all because he is trying to avoid me..if I were to take the attitude that he was tired and working so much to avoid me that would only serve to create an atmosphere where he may avoid me.
h doesn't go to sleep after me to avoid me..in fact h wants me to go to sleep at the same time as him I don't always choose to because I am not always tired at the same time as him..sometimes he will choose to stay up with me to be with me..sure he may fall asleep on the couch but he falls asleep there instead of going up to bed and leaving me alone..I have recently told him to go up to bed if he's tired so that he doesn't end up on the couch all night and that is what he has been doing...heck just last night I wen to bed after him and you know what...a few min after I got there he rolled over and spooned me..didn't just spoon me either..again melted himself into me...placing his head on my pillow...
poe,
you may have avoided your w intentionally..sad for you that you did...my h does not do so.
let's try and do LL a favor and think possitive..look for the possitives in her sit...stop pointing out the negatives..
LL's life is good..her h loves her and yes he does show her everyday...he may not always want to be physical with her but he sure as hell does love her...let's remind her of that!!
so 3 possitive things for today.
1. h cuddled me in bed last night.
2. son's friend is comming to play today.
3. c appointment tonight with h...maybe we'll go look for that shed he wants too!
