I know that the best way to avoid this would have been to be very proactive in planning something special for her birthday, before she had the chance to book up her schedule.
I'm sat here laughing to myself cos I knew you were going to say somthing like that, I should know better really, problem is W and bf had the health spa treatment booked from January, (before we started piecing). Also I need to find a new favourite restaurant cos W mess up my feelings for the last one by delivering the ILYBNILWY there.
Originally Posted By: Rob1231
I'll bet, in the past, stuff like this would be a big deal that festered between the two of you for a while.
Oh yes, that's how things ran.
But hey yes PMA all the way, not gonna let it get me down. Romantic meal for two coming up.
Oh Rob you just hit on something else that I've realized
Originally Posted By: Rob1231
Maybe she secretly wanted you to take the initiative some more here?
I know W wants me to take the initiative more(in everything) but I can't always get my a$$ in gear to respond ahead of time. (something for me to work on).
