Okay all...I need some help here. Just got back from C. He states I am doing very well considering the circumstances. Tomorrow I go back, but with H. This will be the first time we are togetherwith the C since we started about 6 weeks ago. I asked the counselor what to expect tomorrow and he told me that it is time for the tough questions. I need to ask H where his head is and where his heart is. I am afraid of the answers. I desperately want to work on our M. I am afraid that he will not be able to give up his apparent addiction to OOW. So far as I can tell, contact has been limited, unless he created a new email and bought another cell phone. I am trying VERY hard not to snoop. Whenever I get the urge, I log on here. So, a little help....anyone had a C session where the "tough questions" were discussed. What am I in for?, what should I ask him?, How should I act/react? I am really stressing over this one.
Me 41 H 42 T 21 yrs M 16 yrs S15, S11 Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06 Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08 Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08 Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary) Go Bills! Go Sabres!