Originally Posted By: cat03
he must be one heck of a man for you to put up with that kind of disrespectful talk.


I don't know. I think we all hear nasty things from the Alien. And as far as abuse goes, there are definitely things that my W has done that would be called abuse, things I could have called the cops for. But then the next day everything's great. I guess the deal is knowing that's not really her. It's the WAW MLC syndrome and all that. Thus the phrase "alien".

The hope here is, that our spouse will wake up and change. I know DB'ing isn't just choosing to get walked on, but it sure seems like it sometimes. But reading this board I'm convinced that even the worst situations have hope.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK