What is sad for me is that in DR you are told to try and work out what h is getting from the ow that he was not getting with you - well in my case the ow is a musician and plays various instruments and sings, she is in a successful band. My h always felt that he had to give up his music dream to be in a family. He is getting that from her. I could never compete...I am at a stage where I am starting to beleive that ow is a far better catch than me. My h is growing even more distant and has detached from me and d almost completely...I will update on my thread.
