Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I think the necklace thing is cool. I'm glad you feel that way about the ring. Just try to stop associating things that remind you of H to the lack of a future together or hurt that he has caused. Like Tomato said, try to look at the goods things he has done instead.

The better R your D has with her dad, the better R she will have with her OWN H. I count myself as an example of that. I didn't have a close R with my dad, and because of what he did to my mom (and now I can see both sides of what could have happened and that it WASN'T just my dad's fault as I had felt long ago) I really had a problem trusting men. I didn't even trust my H. not necessarily with him cheating, but just with anything, like if he said he did something, I'd double check it. I know that my lack of trust for men, had part to do with the communication problems we had.