Quote: Poster: Sadbuthopefulsam Subject: Re: I have to let go of h
LOL at you, LL!!! Man, you can get your dander up! Nobody complains about my husband but ME!!! Tee hee.
well it depends..certainly if someone wants to talk bad about him they certainly can but they should know for certain what they are talking about.
yes I agree that h works too much...but that's him...what I don't agree with is that h is doing so to avoid spending time with me...it's not deliberate...it's not intentional..h would much rather be at home relaxing...to tell me that my h is working to avoid me is undermining and frankly just not nice...
now if I had been giving all kinds of examples of h being a jerk...and no examples of expressions from h that he's stressed and not liking being away (lest not forget h not so long ago told me he was feeling depressed about the kids and I going away..and also about not being around much)
I spent way to much time thinking that h was trying to avoid me..I don't need to be pulled back there because some people don't understand it.
maybe as time goes by h will delegate more and more parts of his business..as far as having someone else do ALL the paper work?? I've talked with him about it several times over the years and he has very valid reasons why there are just some parts of it that are best left to him.
