hey CF, I hear you, but if, and if God means for you two to be together that won't be a factor. But for now dont' torture yourself and try to plan to have a home where you can have your kids over and continue to have a family, all 3 of you.
I'm on the giving end, will pay off stbx for his share next week, I also felt bad since this would make it more official (we are not even d) but it has to be done, he can't wait to get his $.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
