I meet with the lawyer in a 1/2 hour. I am scared. My stomach is hurting. I feel sick. I hope I don't cry. I hope the woman understands that I haven't made any decisions right now. I just want information. I hope she doesn't try to get me to make a decision for divorce quickly. I don't want any pressure. I just want my questions answered. This has to be one of the scariest things I have ever done. Sara
Sara- I did the same thing you're doing. I went back in Dec. It's okay to cry. I did. This is a HUGE and very hard thing to deal with. I just went for information. The attorney was honest with me and just gave me all the info. that I needed.
Have a good meeting. I know it's hard, but it's also a step toward some more inner strength.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day