Came home today to a frosty welcome from W, no kiss, no conversation, when I asked what was wrong, I got a sharp "Nothing" as the answer. Over dinner I asked what was wrong, W replied there's nothing wrong with her but there must be something wrong with me, something I said on the phone, but she's not going to get into any discussion about it. So now she's not talking to me. [ give me a f**ing break, and I always thought I was the difficult one].
Anyway if I go back to our phone conversation, I did go on a bit about W having all of these nights out around her birthday and not including me, but now she upset cos I pointed this out. (maybe it was the way I said it).
I'm peed off now cos she's gonna sulk for a few days then tell me that I said X,Y,Z and it upset her, instead of dealing with it now. (I just broke off from typing, confirmed, she's not talking to me).
Man, I thought we were done with all of this sillyness.
I know W won't want to talk about it now, cos it may lead into R talk she doesn't want to get into, and I think she feels that I'm trying to push her into talks. (No I'm not !!!)
I'm a little bit stuck now cos my natural reaction to just get out of the house will cause a downward spiral , but I always used to do that. I don't want to go chasing her tail with an apology to smooth things over. Too be honest I don't think I've been out of line and I'm not sure what to apologise about, I just think W is being supersensitive (where's that quote from Rob when you need it). And if we do get into apologies then I think I'm owed a massive one. (Hmmm.. maybe this is why W won't talk).
