I need to get back to this, but now with h around, I don't want to resort to expecting him to do things and getting frustrated when he doesn't. That has been a pattern for us over the years. I would like to be able to work as a team to get things done around here.
Well as this is a goal for YOU and not him, if he helps, great if he doesn't do it for yourself anyway. You're fault if you get upset with him for not assisting you with YOUR goals. If it really bothers you talk to him about it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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