My H refuses to admit to any of those things. He states repeatedly he loves me, he always has, he wants the M but is having trouble with himself(which he can not explain), even Sunday when I asked now that we know that you are not coming home can you please discuss it with D, his response is I am coming home, but you make it so hard when you argue and I leave mad everytime. That is probably all about keeping his options open but it is so hard.
(((Neecy))) I know how you feel on that one, my H says stuff like that all of the time. "When" I come home, "when" we get back together in November. Its just too much. That makes it even harder because you start to question yourself.
You can't drive yourself crazy about what he may/may not be doing. As hard as it is, GAL. Do things for you and DD and let him do his thing, because he is going to anyway. You will just find things to do for yourself. It helps and as for your posts from earlier...he doesn't live in your home, you have no obligation to explain your whereabouts, period!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
