Short-term me-oriented goals (from August 2007):

1. Focus on being calmer and more patient. See previous post. Doing pretty good here.

2. Focus on my kids and on creating the best home and family that I can. Doing pretty good here, still stressful, esp. with money issues.

3. Walk for at least 20 minutes a day, weather-permitting. Failing a little on this one. Now that the weather is so nice, i need to get back into my routine.

4. Attend weekly yoga class. Still going! Still liking it.

5. Plan at least one home-improvement activity each month and follow-through on it. I need to get back to this, but now with h around, I don't want to resort to expecting him to do things and getting frustrated when he doesn't. That has been a pattern for us over the years. I would like to be able to work as a team to get things done around here.

That felt good. OK, now I need to come up with a new list of goals.

Last edited by new_attitude; 05/05/08 07:00 PM.

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08