you have to look at this as a business dealing, and try to leave the emotions at the door
also great sound advice which took me a few wks to understand. In the midst of our broken heart it is easy to make things worse, in an effort to either:making him feel bad for doing this/showing him what a bad idea this is (well, it is, BUT if your H is bent on D it will be useless to try to reason him out of it).
As mentioned on a prev post, the L should look at it before you sign anything.
Good luck honey)))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.