I have to let go of h

[sage]

I like this new possitive outlook...things feel much better when you focus on the possitives instead of letting the negatives fester...actually the more you focus on the possitives the negatives seem to diminish almost to non-existance.

LL

Now THAT is a great attitude!!! I remember making the conscious decision to look for the good stuff in my R and post about it...it helped in so many ways -- what you focus on DOES expand, it helped me see and appreciate the ways that h "communicates" with me and it gave me a journal to reflect back upon when times felt rough.

Hooray for LL!

Sage