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Hi
I think they want to be on good terms,friends ,probably guilt
so they help out after all they left us with a lot of responsibily
Maybe if we are their friend, they think what they did was ok and we are over it
I have that in my situation too
H is willing and wants to fix stuff, he wants to be friends maybe they like us as friends? who knows
we can make the decision to either be friendly or not
maybe friendly has benefits like fixing things and more $cash, kids see friendly parents
I did that for a year but its hard to move on with my life while being friends
I always feel I am trying to decode my H messages
Im sure they didnt want to hurt us, but they did and I like you am still angry and hurt and really cant figure rthis out
If only it were easier for them to move on
they seem to want to keep a foot in each world and Ive read that about mlcers
we have to move forward anyway
I just went dim in my situation after 15 months of "friends"
I dont have any real answers, but I know how you feel
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow