I kind of did the Dobson letter. I told H I wouldn't stand in his way but I wouldn't help him figure out how or when to leave either--though I am not very convincing at letting go. I still can't get past the feeling that he owes me a chance at MC before doing this.

What has led to this resolve on your part? The wishy-washiness, push/pull with your H?


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08