I kind of did the Dobson letter. I told H I wouldn't stand in his way but I wouldn't help him figure out how or when to leave either--though I am not very convincing at letting go. I still can't get past the feeling that he owes me a chance at MC before doing this.
What has led to this resolve on your part? The wishy-washiness, push/pull with your H?
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08