Hey, I'm surprised myself at how I'm able to handle this. At times I feel as if I need to throw in the towel, but ultimately I come to my senses and know I can't do that for D or for myself.
I am definitely preparing for the onslaught and readying the defenses while still trying to treat her w/ respect and dignity. She'll be really, really angry in the upcoming days and weeks, but ultimately if I continue to take the high road and treat her w/ kindness and respect, I may still have an outside shot of DBing. If not, then I should at least have a chance to have a decent co-parenting relationship w/ her for the future.