Im sure you are under a lot of stress right now, and knowing the way your H is, it might take him some time to get to accept that this is all happening.
I know you have been in "wait" mode for awhile, but give him some "extra" time for this.. I know you will. Im sure he's going through a lot of ups and downs with the stuff that has gone on in his family.
Im sure they will all look to you because of the way you are... and that's a compliment
But Im sure that it is very trying.
If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
hugs((((jak)))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.