A Dobson letter is where you let them go, you tell them you don't want a D, but won't stand in their way any longer.

Going our separate ways means not eating dinner together, not planning weekends around each other, not spending every Sunday together. While we don't live together, our lives are still very intertwined.

This is going to be very difficult for me because I'm not going to be seeing my kids on the weekends that H has them, but I need to do this. He needs to see what it's going to be like when he decides we are over.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.