I just keep forgetting to post you about the rings LL.
You've mentioned several times how you're waiting for your H to ask you to put them back on.
Was that an explicit verbal agreement the two of you had? I'm guessing not. Forget the rest of this if indeed you did tell him way back at bomb time that the rings were staying off until he asked you to don them.
Here's the thing. Could very well be that your H feels that the rings are a personal decision of YOURS. That putting them back on would be a signal from YOU to HIM of getting past all of this.
I am only speaking from personal experience, of course. For example, I am not expecting CJ to ask me to wear my anniversary sapphire again. Were he to ask, I would explain why I'd rather not.
Likewise, he stopped wearing HIS anniversary sapphire months and months ago. I never presupposed to ask him to wear it again. He did so on our annivesary this year and has ever since. It means more to me it having been his choice.
Hope this gives you another perspective on that thorny issue.
