When you say go your separate ways, how would that be different from the way you live now?

I totally understand where you're at. I'm not there yet myself, but it gets harder and harder to maintain hope and interest in saving the M after a while. The whole DB baby steps thing is misleading, I think.

I still don't know what a Dobson letter is. Please tell me!

Feeling free sounds wonderful, CW. I'll be curious to find out your Hs response.


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08