I think this is where I belong.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

even though I do not have it in me to be a real DB'r.

If you allow yourself to fail, if you become ok with it, failing becomes easier and easier to swallow.

Never limit yourself.

Do your best, set an example for your children.

I am not refering to just this, this DBing, but life.

You sound defeated before you have even truely entered the battle...what are you French? : )

Strive.

Stand.

And if you 'fail' let it be because someone is standing over your broken and bleeding body, but not before that.