LMG, I'm not a saint. No, we didn't go to a mediator, we set up the terms ourselves. I sat down with a list of questions and we negotiated everything in our family room. It was just right for our situation.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09