Quote: so you guessed it h fell asleep last night while watching the movie...I take it personally...try not to...didn't let h know..but I'm sure he could sense something...
ok folks..I've made a decision...sure the next time we try to watch a movie and h falls asleep I'll take it personally but instead of taking it as I'm too boring for him to stay awake for I will take it personally that he chose to stay on the couch with me..despite the fact that he's tired and would sleep more comfortably in bed!!
ok?
I'm trying to think possitive...
when h is working out in the yard (this new project is huge and will probably take most of the summer) I will not take it personally as he's doing it to avoid the me and the kids..I will take it personally that he's doing the work so that the kids and I can have an enjoyable yard to be in...so that when h and I entertain we will have a nice yard to do so in...so now when h is working in the yard I will not look at it as he's being taken away from me "us" but that he is with us while he's doing it..every lift of the shovel..every muscle he strains...he's doing it with love in mind..love for his family..and the desire to give to them something to enjoy..and yes he will enjoy it too...
