Again Arthur, it appears your wife is very reactionary. You do something, so she must do something. I don't know what to say about it, except I have the same thing going on at times. All I know is up and down mood swings occur when people are beyond stress, they are strained. Unfortunately "normal" thought processing goes out the window when you are strained.
Last week my W. said to me I wish this was all over so she could begin to heal. There you go! Can't heal, and evaluate everything until it is well past the point of no return. Sheer stupidity, I am sorry to say. She is so intelligent, but not when she is under stress. Honestly somedays this is just comical. I don't think they believe we are bad dads, as much as they believe if they don't have the kids the majority of the time, people will think they are bad moms.
My wife has zero tolerance for women who leave their children, but she is willing to leave the family. Hyprocracy has no bounds. I just wish she would get some help sorting through the issues from others besides her relationship dysfunctional support group. Well I stopped giving her advice, she does things her way and will cut off her nose to spite her face. She admits it! What did I marry?
Last edited by thegoodfight; 05/05/0804:47 PM.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
