Your advice is very sound. Unfortunately I don't think I am at the point where I can follow what she does and not get emotional and attack her. Less than a week ago I saw her chatting with a guy on IM and it completely freaked me out to the point where I made a crappy comment, and things went downhill from there. So for the time being, until I'm a bit more grownup, I think it is probably safer not to snoop. She knows where my boundaries are.
The OM that I contacted was only an EA (unlike the first guy), not PA. I asked her for three months to stop contacting him, she refused. The night before I contacted him (11/2007) we ML for the very last time. The next day everything was different. The guy cut contact from his side, I think he thought I was too much trouble. W only finally told me that we would D 6 weeks later, but I know the decision was made the day I ruined her friendship by making contact.
Again, I think your advice is completely spot on. Thanx!!
Me 43 W 42 M 1998 S16 S15 D7 D4 bomb 07/03/2007 OPA ILYBNILWY My Thread
