Karen IMHO if she has already been divorced a "couple" of times and your H isn't pushing for a divorce, maybe he realizes that they are doomed to fail from the start.
It sounds like you had a fun weekend and I'm with Kat, Halloween is my FAVORITE!!! Its hard to have them leave, but the peace they leave behind is a blessing. I will have to try and take a page out of your DB'ing book, you do it so well!
Have a great day and good for your DS, the kids will form their own opinions of H and his actions (mine sure have!). Kids are so smart, they see much more than we give them credit for. Glad to see you will be taking them to C too. Its helped mine so much. Keep up the good work Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option