Quote: Perhaps you are reading too much into everything and being so absorbed with analyzing things that you are stressing yourself out and moving away from being a joy to be around. Recreate a positive, nurturing atmosphere and try to trust that what your H is saying is true. Just let things happen and go with the flow. Reading too much into things can drive you crazy.
you are so right!!
what was different about when h first came home??? I just let things be...I just went with the flow...I didn't analyze everything and therefore h was more comfortable being himself...and I liked that guy!!!
so back to just going with the flow..
but then what if I don't happen to like the way the flow is going?? what if I'm bored...lonely...sad...etc...well I guess I can answer that myself...deal with it!! right??
