My frustrations are because this seems to have come about since we had a lovely family day on Saturday and is just so odd. W is trying to avoid me and I took kids out for afternoon, then as soon as I get home, she has now taken them out.
We are going to have a talk tonight, think more about the mood than the R (at least that is what I'm basing it on) as it's just so weird. All I can think is that maybe she met someone when out Sat night and wants me out the way more quickly all of a sudden ??? Probably just paranoia, I don't know but sone was on pc earlier on W account and whatever he did he brought up the history and called me over as didn't know what he'd done and loads of divorce websites visited today !!! WTF...
These mood swings are unreal, we've got 2 holidays in next month too, one this Thursday where were all in same room together and will be together 24/7 with kkids for 3 days !!!!
It's awkward as I feel like apologising just for peace, but why should I ? I need this chat tonight but will leave it if it's getting silly.
Focus Energy on your goal. Validate! Empathy! Use these phrases:
"I am sorry you feel that way" "I understand you feel that way" "It must be hard to feel that way" Nod and listen
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
