Still trying to be patient

[kat727]

Boy, our H's seem to pick winners!! I had read somewhere once that people cheat down, meaning that they don't get someone just like their spouse, but someone maybe a step or 2 down from their spouses level. Not trying to make that sound snobbish, just that the left behind spouse might have a strong moral system, work ethic, good parenting skills etc, and the OP does not have as strong as skills in these areas for example.
kat