Good points ST. By the way forgiveness was a huge topic during the reading as well. She said that not only do I need to forgive myself for believing that I was at fault for the dissolution of my M, but I need to find a way to forgive my H. That even though I may act like I have forgiven him, he knows that I have not. So, I'm going to be working on forgiving him. Even though sometimes it is really hard to do.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him