CW, you are a saint. I wish I could maintain the patience and tolerance that you are displaying. I can until H brings up S plans and that's when I crack. Today he emailed me saying he set up an appt with a mediator for Wed and would "love it" if I joined him. Just the fact that he dusted off the word love and used it in that context hurts me so much.
When you and your H separated, did you go to anyone to discuss terms? I thought a mediator was for a divorce and as I understand it, the state in which I live requires a year of S before a D.
I wish I could just cooperate, but anytime it gets real--ie an actual appt with a mediator, I freeze up and freak out.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08
