He was definitely on board but as for the coming home, I am not pushing him at the moment. He has to ride this out. I know he wants to come home and he misses it as he told me this just last week.

As a sidenote, I would not be available to begin a new job until June 1st anyway.

He has to set the pace and be strong enough to do it as I am not going to tell him what to do.

He is just now reconnecting with the girls once again as he had no contact with them for almost three weeks. He has to do that first and feel comfortable around all of them.

Right now I am okay with the way things are. He'll be back and I consider this part of the journey.

Last edited by steelersfan; 05/05/08 03:36 PM.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19