Hi, LL...I haven't been by your thread in a long time...sorry you're so frustrated! Your thread subject is "I have ot let go of h" - I wonder what would happen if you DID stop doing so much for him? Stop making his lunches, stop begging for dates - don't always be there when he is there, ask him to watch the kids during the day on the weekend so you can go do something...this seems like the fun part of DBing, in some ways...

It won't change if you don't change. You have a young young child, right? Less than a year, I think. That is SO HARD, just by itself. Being a mom of an infant. Are you involved with other moms? I would think you'd need that! You need & deserve emotional support. GO GET IT!!!

Thank you for being so supportive ofme with Sad & on my thread. Your words have really lifted both of our spirits...I hope you can do the same for yourself!

Sam