How is your son? Have you taken him to a counselor yet? Would you please take one piece of advice and let him see a counselor ALONE without either of his parents in the room. My son has done this for almost 3 years now, to very good effect. His dad and/or I are sometimes invited in, but normally the sessions are private, for him alone. I strongly urge you to do this in light of the volatility of your family situation.
