Flipper, I am glad it helped. I will post Jen_Jam's top ten for you also. It was a great source of comfort for me, when I was new around here. I read it every time I became frustrated or lost hope. Another site that I have found for Christians trying to save marriages is rejoiceministries.com. I have them send me(via email) a daily devotional, which helps me remain focused on what M is truly about, God's wishes. I am catholic and some of their beliefs are a little new to me, but I love reading the scripture every morning...it truly keeps my hope, faith, and strength alive!
I would try to stay away from any R talks for now, if she starts it, try to keep it light. Work rebuilding trust and friendship, and SHOWING, not telling her the changes you are making!
Will go find the top ten I was talking about
Christarn
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
